By Kwabena Bibini Barima
Evolutionary, biologically and psychologically, the male specie has always been happier when it gives or provides to the female and this is true in the animal kingdom where the male animal have to offer something in order to get to lay with the best of the females to perpetuate his bloodline ahead of the less dominant males among the tribe.
In humans, this transaction between the male and the female is at a different level all together. In both the animal kingdom and Homo sapiens, the currency for trading is not always about money the currency is determined by the rules of engagement existing in that specific jurisdiction or environment.
Thus, in some groups of animals, the male must have the ability to hunt and give the proceed to the female to have sexual access.
The motivation for male to provide for the female is not limited to sexual access but the male’s ability to provide whether to himself, a woman, his family, or an ordinary stranger is highly connected to his general wellbeing and happiness in life and reduces his stress levels to a large extent.
On the other hand, provision decreases the happiness of the female human being in fact, long term provisioning from a female towards the male makes her depressed and unhappy in life so the act of provision or giving is not a favor from men to women but it has a bio-psychological and existential benefit to the man.
Notwithstanding the numerous benefits of provision to the wellbeing of men, it is imperative for every man to know that, giving or providing to the wrong woman or even giving to your fellow man who does not deserve your act of kindness can cause you heartbreaks, feel betrayed resentful and become a bitter person.
And I will like to emphasis here that if any man spends his money on an unqualified, entitled woman because you are an uninitiated man, that is your problem and not a woman’s problem because this is something you shouldn’t have done in the first place. So instead of bashing and complaining about the women, see this as a good opportunity to learn the hard way.
Yes, if any man works hard and give his sweat to the wrong or undeserving woman it is not the fault of that woman it is your lack of knowledge and your own foolishness at fault here. Such a man does not have a woman problem you have your own problem, you need to deal with, if you know you are one of these men I am talking about here, this is the time to start learning by taking the 33 Men’s Voice Podcast and the new series on how to get rid of the female in you as your blood tonic, morning, afternoon and evening 3 times daily not recommended for boys under 16.
NOW WHY IS THE HASHTAG STINGY AND PROUD PERFECT AT THIS TIME?
A lot of women are having issues with the most trending hashtag in the manosphere community in Ghana “STINGY AND PROUD” and there are two groups of women who are worried about it. The first group is the undeserving, unqualified and the delusionally entitled young and old feminist infected women.
While the first groups of worried women are worried for nogood reason, but pure evil intent towards men, the second groups of women are coming from a place of somewhat genuine concern this group are afraid this campaign may over harden the hearts of men or the next generation of men if this message is not well interpreted to the general masses of young men.
They also believe if care is not taken this campaign can be misunderstood to be an anti-marriage crusade towards the separation of men and women. Well, as the pioneer of gender dynamics in Ghana and especially on social media, I over-understand this message and know exactly what Bracanz means when he says men of our time must be STINGY AND PROUD.
Therefore, I want to address the misunderstandings surrounding this beautiful emancipating message to Ghanaian men and beyond. Now to those with genuine concerns, stingy and proud is not an anti-marriage campaign it neither a campaign to make men see women as the source of every problem they encounter in life, like the feminist do.
Stingy and proud is here to make men rather responsible in every decision they make in life, in their business, their family and especially their relationship with women and let me emphasize: stingy and proud is not an egalitarian movement therefore, the campaign does not play the middle grounds.
What I mean is stingy and proud is not afraid to declare who the enemy is. The enemy is an unquailed, undeserving young and old feminist infected women who want to gaslight men for their money. Once again, if any of the women described above has issues with the campaign, to hell with them and their worries.
NOW LET ME ADRESS BRACANS:
Anyone who has issue with BRACANS and his movement should understand that, the young man didn’t start this movement out of nothing; he is a highly observant man who uses the larger society around him as his scientific laboratory where he observes daily interaction between men and women and out of the observations, he came up with this hashtag to solve problem for society and men unapologetically.
In other words, there is no smoke without fire, while some few women with genuine concern think the hashtag is too strong or hash, they should also realize that we are living in a time where feminism has made it easier for women to manipulate and gaslight men into doing what they want for them, What the late Kelvin Samuels termed, the sign language.
According to the late Kelvin Samuels, the SIGN language stands for: Shame, Insult, Guilt, and the need to be right. Yes Bra Can came out with this powerful hash tag as a toll to help men not to feel guilty anytime they have to turn down a request from an undeserving female.
Example of the sign language is, only real men spend on women without thinking or only real men allow their girlfriends or wives to have a male beasties etc. and this sign language has a very powerful impact on both young and old men. Because most of the time, without education from the Manosphere, majority of men love to say Yes to every demand of the female.
But thanks to the powerful effect of stingy and proud, whenever these feminist tries to shame or guilt a man to do what will go against him in the future, these men are able to resist and say no without feeling guilty for not giving his hard earned money, time and resources to an entitled female.
So stingy and proud is nothing but, a philosophical means of attack and to defuse the oldest modus operandi of the feminist movement which always use shame, insult, guilt, and the need to be right to force uninitiated men into submission. Another sad aspect of the feminist tactics is that, it does not only shame or guilt men to do their bidden rather, it gradually turn men into a useless woman a.k.a, a she-male.
In a layman’s words, stingy and proud is saying that, anytime you hear a poor man’s daughter who’s father never bought a bicycle nor built a single room for himself and her delusional daughter broke-shaming you, for not accepting to buy her something, just remember that it is okay to say No! to a woman no matter who she is, starting from your mother, your sisters your aunties and any female who want you to do something for them under the dark side of female manipulations.
Stingy and proud is a modern-day antidote to an ancient female dark psychology which takes advantage of the natural male nature to destroy him. You may call this negative female nature, female narcissism, sprinkle sprinkle or the use of sign language to force uninitiated or weak men onto their miserable kneels. It is simply a woman making you feel sorry for not giving her what she has not worked for.
As I conclude, what Bracans is saying is, and my philosophical interpretation is that, as human beings we pay for everything we get and people pay us for everything we do for them directly or indirectly therefore make sure whoever wants your resources must deserve it or must pay for it and if you realize that they don’t deserve it, but this same person feels entitled on top of it, say a big NO! to them.
And never feel ashamed by remembering Bracan’s wordsthat being stingy is something you should be very proud of especially as a man towards entitled, disqualified, delusional feminist infected females.
Finally, as the first person who officially started talking about the evil nature of feminism and it’s negative effects on men, women children and the society, I have launched a series called “How to Get Rid of the Female in you as a man and I employ everyone to follow and share every episode of this series so that we can first identify the psychological female in every man and finally get rid of her by so doing accepting the stingy and proud message won’t be problem for you.
Once you get rid of her, you begin to live your live, act and make decisions like a real man not the real man described by a feminist.
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About the writer:
Kwabena Bibini Barima is a socio-political activist, a philosopher by
passion a researcher on liberal ideologies and policies like feminism, postmodernism and its related subjects. He is the host of the 33 Men’s Voice Podcast on Tiktok and youtube.
Contact the writer @blaqnificentmedia@gmail.com
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